I watched Sex and the City season 6 or 7 earlier and finally i crossed upon the "he's just not that into you" episode. My friend Rhye from my first company let me read this book, and oh my - EVIL GENIUS book!


1. If he's not asking you out. (..because if he likes you, he'll ask you out.)

:: Dont make excuses that he is busy working or doing other things. He is not even asking you out even once because he's just not that into you! Ikaw lang ba ang gustong mgkita kayong ulet?

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said that if girls do it, they'll just spoil the fun!

2. If he's not calling you. (Men know how to phone call.)

:: Dont pretend that he lost your number, his cellphone was stolen, or he's working diligently. He's not calling you because he's just not that into you! Kala mo ba lowbat lagi ang fone nian?

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said theyre never been busy to call a woman they are really into!

3. If he's not dating you. (Hanging out isn't dating.)

:: There's a difference when you go out alone and when you're friends are everywhere. The truth is he doesnt want to spend the time alone with you because he's just not that into you! Friends lang kayo nian, assuming ka naman.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said a fear of intimacy has never stopped from getting into a relationship.

4. If he's not touching you. (when men like you, they want to touch you, always!)

:: Well, all men like to touch.. Unless kinakahiya or kabit ka nia, he wont even walk with you in public.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said ... wait, need i say more?

5. If he's cheated on you. (Read: There's never been a good excuse for cheating.)

:: There will always be a prettier, sexier, funnier woman. So? Is that a good excuse for his cheating? He cheated because he's just not that into you! Girl, if he's cheated on you even once, then he becomes unworthy of your time.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never accidentally slept with anyone. (though neither one of them remembered why it happended!)

6. If he only wants to see you when he's drunk. (and his judgement isn't impaired.)

:: He likes you around only when he is not at his best. Adik to!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never vomitted in front of a woman they were really into.

7. If he doesn't want to marry you. (Love cures commitment-phobia.)

:: Never make excuses for him that he's just been out of a hard break up recently, or he is the provider of his family, or he has priorities. It's this simple: guy meets girl; guy dates girl; guy courts guy; guy marries girl! He doesnt want to marry you because he's not sure with you! Love cures commitment-phobia: says it all!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they have no problem marrying a woman who they were positive
the love of their life.

8. If he's breaking up with you. (..means "I dont want to go out with you anymore.")

:: He's just not angry or pissed off by the time he said he wanted to break off. He broke up with you simply because he's just not that into you! No nagpapahabol-ako-drama effect yan, break kapag break!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said that when they broke up with someone, it always meant that they didn't want to be with you anymore.

9. If he's disappeared on you. (Closure all by yourself.)

:: There's no more chance for this type OK?! Super rude not to even tell the girl that theyre off.

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled who had disappeared on a woman said that they are completely aware of what a horrible thing they were doing, and no woman calling them up would have changed that.

10. If he's married, still attached with someone else. (If you're not able to love freely, it's not really love.)

:: If he loves you he'll fix things to make things right for you, and not just make you clueless where your relationship will go. If plans and promises are all he has, then he's just not that into you! Kaya nga number two ka lang dba, ksi my priority cia..

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: ..list down top 5 qualities you want your man to have. check your list- MARRIED isn't included.

11. If he's a selfish jerk, a bully, a really big freak. (If you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy.)

:: Pati ba pagiging obnoxiuos nia pagtatakpan mo pa?!

----- if you dont believe it -----

:: 100% of the men polled said they never tried to humiliate or torture a woman they are really into.

[an evil genius book by greg and liz]

4 responses:

aina said...

oh i love the book as well=) one of my favorite actually.=)

after reading it, para akong binuhusan ng malamig na tubig. those guys didn't mince their words and did not sugarcoat what they want to impart.

ouch pero true.=)

enrico said...

For women who read ung blog na 'to, I think it should also be impt not to overthink why they are not into you.
may tendency kse for some people to think that there is something wrong with them. Gail Saltz says, "sometimes there is something going on that is NOT ABOUT YOU."
parang sa damit lang 'yan. maganda at bagay sayo ung damit, ndi rin ganun expensive. pero ayaw mo pa rin bilhin. sa tingin mo nag-aksaya ng oras yung damit para isipin kung bkit di mo sya bnili. ndi di ba? (may isip ung damit, hehe).
but seriously, there are many times people will not like for who you are khit gano ka pa kganda o kbait and they wouldn't even spend a second to think why. so why should also bother analyzing. ma-stress ka lng.
and if you find a friend finding it difficult to accept that a guy is not into them, be careful sa I-advise natin. bka tyo pa ang magbigay ng reason para sa kanila. Like what Dennis Mann said, "friends create, analyze and reinforce the excuses and the reasons that women come up with because it could just as easily be them with this dating dilemma."
gumawa ng sariling entry sa blog ni Chyng. hehe
see you later!

made kwento by enrico:9

chyng said...

wow, forum ng magkapatid?

i was shocked also after i read it. interesting! yet nainis ako after.. nakakarelate din kc in some ways!

i actually recommend this book sa mga frens ko na mejo nagtatanga-tangahan abt the guys they want na di man lang ng-eefort. unfortunately, binasa lang nila, di naman ma-apply! hehehe

thanks for making kwento and making research.. blog mo ba to? haha joke!

uhm dude, u know girls know naman when a guy is serious or not. kso lang if not, they want someone else to tell it to their face pa. ganun un! and those girls na iicpin nila na ther's something wrong with them- well they are just the pathetic ones!

mirka said...

Funny, lahat ng poll 100%.... :D

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